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And then she poured her cocoa all over my cream couch.

It was at that exact moment that I wondered why nobody warned me not to have kids. 

Ooooh, harsh, you.

No, not harsh.  Honest.

Because that was after she ran into oncoming traffic, threw my sheitel across the room, dripped her yogurt over the screaming baby, cut her younger sister’s hair and scribbled on the kitchen cabinet with a permanent marker.

“I’m just not cut out for all this.”

This was the line that kept going round and round in my brain.
                         
                   
                       
                               

You know, once upon a time I ruled the world.


   
                               

I had a job that was a mega ego booster.

                               

I was skinny and pretty.

 

I went to sleep when my body said ‘tired’.

         

I woke up when God gave me back my soul.

         

I ate in peace.

         

I showered for 10 minutes at a time.

         

I even played the guitar.

                               

You know, a human being.

                                                   
                       
                       
                                                               

Then, I became a mother.

Then, I became a mother.

Then, I became a mother.

Then, I became a mother.

                           
                               

With each of my 4 kids, I lost another piece of myself.

                                 

I had no time.  No space.  No energy.  No independence.  No mood.  No joy.

                                 

And heaven’s,  no peace.

                                 

NO Nuttin'

                           
                       
                       
                                                               

I was caught in a monstrous monsoon that I HATED:

                           
                               

I cooked and cleaned and soothed and wiped and screamed and bathed and folded and dried and cried and washed and whimpered and bribed and threatened and shushed and hushed and chopped and mopped and….

                               

I WANTED OUT.

                               

Then I felt guilty for wanting out

                               

Then I felt guilty for feeing guilty

                                 

Yeah,t'was twisty.

                           
                       
                               

Then came a magic elf and sprinkled some dust on my head.

                               

I swooned once.

I swooned twice.

                           
                               

And I became the mother that bakes cookies, smiles for a living and tussles hair for fun.

                           
                           

Actually, no.

                       
                                           
               
         
               
         
       
         
   

You know, once upon a time I ruled the world.

I had a job that was a mega ego booster.

I was skinny and pretty.

I went to sleep when my body said ‘tired’.

I woke up when God gave me back my soul.

I ate in peace.

I showered for 10 minutes at a time.

I even played the guitar.

You know, a human being.

Then, I became a mother.
Then, I became a mother.
Then, I became a mother.
Then, I became a mother.

With each of my 4 kids, I lost another piece of myself.

I had no time.  No space.  No energy.  No independence.  No mood.  No joy.  
And heaven’s,  no peace.

NO Nuttin’

I was caught in a monstrous monsoon that I HATED:

I cooked and cleaned and soothed and wiped and screamed and bathed and folded and dried and cried and washed and whimpered and bribed and threatened and shushed and hushed and chopped and mopped and…

I WANTED OUT.

Then I felt guilty for wanting out. Then I felt guilty for feeling guilty.

Yeah, t’was twisty.

Then came a magic elf and sprinkled some dust on my head.

I swooned once.

I swooned twice.

And I became the mother that bakes cookies, smiles for a living and tussles hair for fun.

Actually, no.

I tried a therapist.

She blamed my parents.

I tried a life coach

She pushed me to a breaking point.

I tried shiurim.

But I couldn't implement.

I tried being grateful.

Instead, I was resentful

Then, the sun and the moon held hands and I met Chayelle Rose.

The first question I asked her:

“What should I do?”

She answered:

“Nothing.  Stop trying to do.  And learn how to BE.”

Be?

Isolation_Mode (3)

I’m a bee that stings.

Other than that, I’m not sure how to be.

Yeah.

But Chayelle taught me.

She taught me how to erase stress.
She taught me how to be present.
She taught me how to escape victimhood.
She taught me how to live life.

But most of all, she taught me how to love life.

Be?

Isolation_Mode (3)

I’m a bee that stings.

Other than that, I’m not sure how to be.

Yeah.

But Chayelle taught me.

She taught me how to erase stress.
She taught me how to be present.
She taught me how to escape victimhood.
She taught me how to live life.

But most of all, she taught me how to love life.

Hey, I'm Chayelle and I'm blushing.

That nameless woman that hijacked this page is clearly exaggerating.

But I can vouch that she’s a changed person.

She went from get-me-out-of-this-before-I-snap to wow-I-see-I-was-seeing-this-all-wrong-life-is-nice.

And she’s not alone.  I’ve seen her story play out in different shapes and sizes.

And this is what I want to tell you, and the world:

You can be happy, calm and present without changing who you are or needing to alter your circumstances.

Hey, I'm Chayelle and I'm blushing.

That nameless woman that hijacked this page is clearly exaggerating.

But I can vouch that she’s a changed person.

She went from get-me-out-of-this-before-I-snap to wow-I-see-I-was-seeing-this-all-wrong-life-is-nice.

And she’s not alone.  I’ve seen her story play out in different shapes and sizes.

And this is what I want to tell you, and the world:

You can be happy, calm and present without changing who you are or needing to alter your circumstances.

YOU:
Too good to be true.
Seems very slimy to me.

Me:

I guess here’s where I have to prove myself and go into credential mode.

Successfully coached hundreds of happy clients

Trained and certified as a 3PGC Practitioner

Keynote speaker and presenter

“I never realized how easy this whole mother thing could be.”

In Esty’s own words:
I was consumed with the fear that I’m going to cause lifelong trauma to my children.  Or that someone will.  Chayelle freed me of that.  I use the word free because those thoughts held me hostage day and night.  Now I’m free to be the parent I want to without the overhanging cloud of fear and guilt.
How Zehava sees it:
You know what the winning combination for me was?  That on one hand you are so deep and intellectual but on the other you are so practical with an insane dose of common sense.  It’s that blend that pushed me out of the rut I was in.
How Zehava sees it:
You know what the winning combination for me was?  That on one hand you are so deep and intellectual but on the other you are so practical with an insane dose of common sense.  It’s that blend that pushed me out of the rut I was in. My understanding of my role in life has completely changed and seeing Hashem in my life is practical instead of theoretical.
Mindy’s Mantra:
If you want someone that has zero airs about her, is not stuffy or stifling, leaves all the charades behind and yet oozes brilliant gems and insights at any given moment, you better go where Chayelle goes.  She understands humanity, she tells it to you like it is and she bases all her information on simple principles.
Rivky Said this:
I finally understand myself and can say I have a strong sense of confidence.  I know how to express my needs with balance and dignity.  I feel empowered to parent my children.  My constant self doubt has been replaced with purpose and inner strength.  I never realized how easy this whole mother thing could be.
Rivky Said this:
I finally understand myself and can say I have a strong sense of confidence.  I know how to express my needs with balance and dignity.  I feel empowered to parent my children.  My constant self doubt has been replaced with purpose and inner strength.  I never realized how easy this whole mother thing could be.

Permission to talk now?

Cool.
Because I’m itching to tell you what this is about.

After listening to hundreds of moms and internalizing their struggles, I realized that there was a need.

A need for nannies.

That, too, but nah.

Permission to talk now?

Cool.
Because I’m itching to tell you what this is about.

After listening to hundreds of moms and internalizing their struggles, I realized that there was a need.

A need for nannies.

That, too, but nah.

INTRODUCING:

Present Parenting

An interactive, cohort-led zoom course that will teach mothers how to embrace themselves and their experiences, empowering them to live a rich life of stability and joy.

Joy!? Sign me up

If the below is foreign to you, you’re free to leave now.

Everyone else, give a nod if any of these boxes check off for you.

You feel unqualified for motherhood.

You feel unprepared for motherhood.

You feel uninspired by motherhood.

You feel stressed
by motherhood.

You feel confused
by motherhood.

You feel trapped
by motherhood.

Two Things:

1. You are not alone

2. There is a way out

There is a way to go from I’m-being-forced-to-do-this parenting thing to I-actually-like-this-and-want-this mothering.

There is a way for you to stop thinking about your couch, 

your coffee, your book, 
your emails, your yoga, your avocado toast, your milkshake, 

your vacation 
your new wig, your renovations, your lunch date to and start:

Being Present

with your children

Two Things:

1. You are not alone

2. There is a way out

There is a way to go from I’m-being-forced-to-do-this parenting thing to I-actually-like-this-and-want-this mothering.

There is a way for you to stop thinking about your couch, 

your coffee, your book, 
your emails, your yoga, your avocado toast, your milkshake, 

your vacation,
your new wig, your renovations, your lunch date, and start:

Being Present

with your children

What does that even mean?

It means you will be:

Pragmatic instead of Reactive

Relaxed instead of Fearful

Joyful instead of Stressed

Understanding instead of Abrasive

Calm instead of Dramatic

Present instead of Distracted

Empowered instead of Helpless

I’m in for this list alone.


Feedback from Present Parenting 2023

Okay, that’s a lot of melodrama.

And even more fluffy promises.
Earth to us all.

What exactly am I selling here?

A potion that makes you patient.

A live, interactive, cohort-led zoom course.

Fancy words.  What is it?

A zoom group where I spend the first 15-30 minutes teaching you a new concept and then using the remaining 30-45 minutes moderating a conversation between all participants.

So, no, it’s not an all out lecture where I drone on and on about what a great mom I am and you spend the time feeling like you’ll never get there.  

I introduce down to earth concepts based on the 3 principles and then we hash it out as a group.

“Basically, it’s a glorified support group?”

NO, you cynic!

It’s new information every week

with

Thought provoking conversations

and

Pointed questions

To make sure

You understand every detail and walk away with complete clarity and perspective of the material.


AH.
AHA.
AHAAAAA.

Sinking in yet?


Feedback from Present Parenting 2023

Oh, I almost forgot to tell you this:

YOU.
ARE.
NOT.
A.
DYSFUNCTIONAL.
MOTHER.

You may be cruising. And snoozing.

And we should definitely get shmoozing.

But I want you to know that you are amazing. Regardless of anything.

Regardless if you sign up or not, you rock forever.

But if you want more, here is what is on offer:

Track #1
Be Present

  • 12 Week Course
  • Private Coaching Session
  • Lifetime access to recordings
  • Slides of every lesson
  • 'You don't need fixing' ebook
  • Audio exercises

$350

or

$500 if you sign up after December 31st

Let's do it

Track #2
Super Present

  • 16 Week Course
  • 1 Private Coaching Session
  • Lifetime access to recordings
  • Slides of every lesson
  • 'You don't need fixing' ebook
  • Audio exercises

$500

or

$700 if you sign up after December 31st

I'm in for Super

Track #3
Beyond Present*

  • 16 Week Course
  • 3 Private Coaching Sessions
  • Lifetime access to recordings
  • Slides of every lesson
  • 'You don't need fixing' ebook
  • Audio exercises

$800

or

$1100 if you sign up after December 31st

I shoot for the stars

*Limited to 6 participants

A sixteen week program

Of what, exactly?

Week 1:

Starting mid-November

  • Three principles that simplify life.
  • Learning how to listen.
  • The science behind psychological fitness.

Week 2:

  • How do all humans change?
  • Simplifying feelings, freeing ourselves from blockages.
  • Expanding our mental bandwidth expands what we can do.

Week 3:

  • Becoming an explorer.
  • Understanding overwhelm
  • A different look at patience 

Week 4:

  • Accessing your intrinsic worth.
  • Fundamental keys to navigating practical life.
  • Taking Responsibility vs. Feeling blame.

Week 5:

  • Finding psychological freedom.
  • Becoming present.
  • The secret of lightheartedness.

Week 6:

  • Essential relationship keys.
  • Dropping resentment.
  • Beating moods!

Week 7:

  • Guest Speaker: Chana Studley.
  • Pain and physical symptoms.
  • Hormones.

Week 8:

  • The gratitude need.
  • Becoming self-aware.
  • The illusion of control and becoming more predictable.

Week 9:

  • Parenting from love not fear.
  • The vital art of enjoying life.
  • Becoming the rock of the household.

Week 10:

  • The real source of stress.
  • Finding peace in the chaos.
  • The Joy of yelling.

Week 11:

  • Inspired productivity.
  • Being ok with what is.
  • Issues that don't change.

Week 12:

  • Delegation in the household.
  • Not keeping the score.
  • The subtle genius of  gentle boundaries.

Week 13:

  • Confident decision making.
  • Dropping FOMO.
  • Using social pressure to your advantage.

Week 14:

  • The ups and downs of the daily grind.
  • Why self care is overrated.
  • Forging your own path.

Week 15:

  • Common family issues.
  • Respecting parents.
  • Forgiveness.

Week 16:

  • Seeing the true you - in yourself and your children.
  • How to live a truly harmonious life.
  • How to experience others so we can truly be one.

Week 1:

Starting November

  • Three principles that simplify life.
  • Learning how to listen.
  • The science behind psychological fitness.

Week 3:

  • Becoming an explorer.
  • Understanding overwhelm.
  • Practical patience.

Week 5:

  • Finding psychological freedom.
  • Becoming present.
  • The secret of lightheartedness.

Week 7:

  • Guest Speaker: Chana Studley.
  • Pain and physical symptoms.
  • Hormones.

Week 9:

  • Parenting from love not fear.
  • The vital art of enjoying life.
  • Becoming the rock of the household.

Week 11:

  • Inspired productivity.
  • Being ok with what is.
  • Issues that don't change.

Week 13:

  • Confident decision making.
  • Dropping FOMO.
  • Using social pressure to your advantage.

Week 15:

  • Common family issues.
  • Respecting parents.
  • Forgiveness.

Week 2:

  • How do all humans change?
  • Simplifying feelings, freeing ourselves from blockages.
  • Expanding our mental bandwidth expands what we can do.

Week 4:

  • Accessing your intrinsic worth.
  • Fundamental keys to navigating practical life.
  • Taking Responsibility vs. Feeling blame.

Week 6:

  • Essential relationship keys.
  • Dropping resentment.
  • Beating moods!

Week 8:

  • The gratitude need.
  • Becoming self-aware.
  • The illusion of control and becoming more predictable.

Week 10:

  • The real source of stress.
  • Finding peace in the chaos.
  • The Joy of yelling.

Week 12:

  • Delegation in the household.
  • Not keeping the score.
  • The subtle genius of  gentle boundaries.

Week 14:

  • Three principles that simplify life.
  • Learning how to listen.
  • The science behind psychological fitness.

Week 16:

  • Seeing the true you - in yourself and your children.
  • How to live a truly harmonious life.
  • How to experience others so we can truly be one.

Chany wants to say this:

I’m a person that’s very hard on myself. I blame myself for everything that isn’t perfect in my childrens’ lives. I get caught in patterns of negative thinking and hopelessness. Chayelle’s teachings is the cure for that. I say is and not was because it’s a work in progress.  But the awareness changed the trajectory of my existence. I know where the thoughts are coming from, I know what they mean and I know how to shift that. Chayelle is a must for everyone that calls themselves Mom.

This is my type of thing.


Feedback from Present Parenting 2023

Track #1
Be Present

  • 12 Week Course
  • Private Coaching Session
  • Lifetime access to recordings
  • Slides of every lesson
  • 'You don't need fixing' ebook
  • Audio exercises

$350

or

$500 if you sign up after December 31st

Let's do it

Track #2
Super Present

  • 16 Week Course
  • 1 Private Coaching Session
  • Lifetime access to recordings
  • Slides of every lesson
  • 'You don't need fixing' ebook
  • Audio exercises

$500

or

$700 if you sign up after December 31st

I'm in for Super

Track #3
Beyond Present*

  • 16 Week Course
  • 3 Private Coaching Sessions
  • Lifetime access to recordings
  • Slides of every lesson
  • 'You don't need fixing' ebook
  • Audio exercises

$800

or

$1100 if you sign up after December 31st

I shoot for the stars

*Limited to 6 participants

If you got here in one piece that means
you may have questions!

Nope. As a Jewish woman and mother, the principles have given me the ability to approach my values in a clear-headed and deeply meaningful way that took what I already knew to the next level. And so I based Present Parenting on the principle foundations, but it will all be explained to you in detail.

No. Signing up for the waitlist signals your interest but does not commit you. When registration opens you will be notified first. You will also be entitled to a very significant discount and be eligible for other perks.

A computer. Optional: I will recommend some books but you do not need to buy them. I will also be sending audios to listen to in between sessions.

We start end of November

You can choose either:

Monday 9PM EST

Tuesday 2PM EST / 9PM Israel

Yes and no!

There are loads and loads of videos on YouTube about the Three Principles that I would be happy to recommend. But not much devoted to moms  and parenting. If you are a motivated learner, I would be happy to make some recommendations. But I find that most people need some form of a structure of commitment to keep them in the learning space. You know yourself better than I do!

Yes. Different people have different ways of learning. Some people benefit from more intense accountability that coaching provides. Coaching is absolutely awesome way of stepping into a greater potential. If you are interested reach out to info@chayellerose.com

Yes!
 
 
  • If you want to live a more authentic life, it’s for you.
  • If you want a stress-free existence, it’s for you.
  • If you don’t want to constantly worry about the next thing, it’s for you.
  • If you want to drop  resentment and forgive people who have hurt you, it’s for you.
  • If you want to fall in love with life, it’s for you.
  • If you want your belief system to go from theoretical to passionate, meaningful and real, it’s for you..
  • If you are ready to remove the nail polish and let the world see the real you, it’s for you.
  • If you want to take all that and parent from a clear clear mind and an open heart, it’s for you.
Everyone else, have a great day!
I'm ready to sign up

Track #1
Be Present

  • 12 Week Course
  • Private Coaching Session
  • Lifetime access to recordings
  • Slides of every lesson
  • 'You don't need fixing' ebook
  • Audio exercises

$350

or

$500 if you sign up after December 31st

Let's do it

Track #2
Super Present

  • 16 Week Course
  • 1 Private Coaching Session
  • Lifetime access to recordings
  • Slides of every lesson
  • 'You don't need fixing' ebook
  • Audio exercises

$500

or

$700 if you sign up after December 31st

I'm in for Super

Track #3
Beyond Present*

  • 16 Week Course
  • 3 Private Coaching Sessions
  • Lifetime access to recordings
  • Slides of every lesson
  • 'You don't need fixing' ebook
  • Audio exercises

$800

or

$1100 if you sign up after December 31st

I shoot for the stars

*Limited to 6 participants

Whew.

That was long and intense.

You either bought my course or snorted.

Either way, I’m taking my heels off to tell you a bit about myself, human to human.

I live in Nachlaot.

I have 5 children.

I play the piano.

I sing low harmony. 

I love finding treasures in second hand shops.

I hate cliches.

I married into a family of spotless clean wonder women.

And I just scratched your curiosity itch.

Now, will I get to know you too?

This is where I have to tell you what will happen to you if you don’t sign up.

Nothing.

Track #1
Be Present

$350

or

$500 if you sign up after December 31st

Let's do it

Track #2
Super Present

$500

or

$700 if you sign up after December 31st

I'm in for Super

Track #3
Beyond Present*

$800

or

$1100 if you sign up after December 31st

I shoot for the stars

*Limited to 6 participants

I love finding treasures in second hand shops.

I hate cliches.

I married into a family of spotless clean wonder women.

And I just scratched your curiosity itch.

Now, will I get to know you too?

We part ways now.
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