Real Mums Real Breathroughs
But I couldn’t admit the truth to myself…
Until one day I discovered a chassidish lady
who was teaching "The Three Principles"
My inner yenta heard her calling
I had to see this lady talking psychology
A quick search found me a video
detailing her recovery from depression
and her discovery of inner peace
In one hour, I saw that my entire life was not what I thought it was.
I had to know more
Thus began my decade+ search to understand:
1. How experience works.
2. How to connect with who we truly are.
3. How to become productive humans and live with inner peace and joy.
Two interesting things
I’ve learned along the way:
One thing leads to another
I came to Chayelle a few months after giving birth with post-partum blues. I had been in therapy for a while and it didn’t seem to be helping. I was constantly living in fear. Functioning as normal on the outside but worried about everything on the inside. But when the feelings overwhelmed me it would come out in my behaviour towards my children which made me even more afraid and insecure. I found myself constantly judging myself and not living up to the way I wanted to be living. by accident
Soon I was giving classes and training as a coach
One choice opens up opportunities
One delay leads to new possibilities
We can live a life of guilt and regret
or we can choose to look
and find the guidance
IN EVERYTHING
I came to Chayelle a few months after giving birth with post-partum blues. I had been in therapy for a while and it didn’t seem to be helping. I was constantly living in fear. Functioning as normal on the outside but worried about everything on the inside. But when the feelings overwhelmed me it would come out in my behaviour towards my children which made me even more afraid and insecure. I found myself constantly judging myself and not living up to the way I wanted to be living. blamed myself
I have beat myself up
I have stressed
about my lacks
I have agonised
about what I should be
You can be happy in the most unlikely situations
You can be sad/anxious/down and be totally ok
You see I've seen many people fall
for this basic misunderstanding:
So many people think the aim is to be happy and upbeat in every moment.
To Live a Life of Peace and Joy
What I've seen is:
The point is to be fully, unapologetically HUMAN.
Looking back, it is impossible not to see:
Every stage was guided
Until the day
I stopped
And in that moment I Changed
And that's when I truly saw
how to raise my children:
Post Partum Blues
I came to Chayelle a few months after giving birth with post-partum blues. I had been in therapy for a while and it didn’t seem to be helping. I was constantly living in fear. Functioning as normal on the outside but worried about everything on the inside. But when the feelings overwhelmed me it would come out in my behaviour towards my children which made me even more afraid and insecure. I found myself constantly judging myself and not living up to the way I wanted to be living.
Somebody recommended Chayelle.
I was blown away by her ability to remain cheerful and upbeat and to gently bring me up with her. She wasn’t sucked into my misery. I had never been treated like this. At first I couldn’t understand how someone can be like that. It was so different to anything I had experienced.
And slowly over time I started to understand the how and the why.
Somebody recommended Chayelle.
I was blown away by her ability to remain cheerful and upbeat and to gently bring me up with her. She wasn’t sucked into my misery. I had never been treated like this. At first I couldn’t understand how someone can be like that. It was so different to anything I had experienced.
And slowly over time I started to understand the how and the why.
My first breakthrough was when I started experiencing my lows in a completely different way. It was almost like having an out of body experience. I could see myself getting down, but not get sucked into it. It was life changing. People had being trying to explain this to me for years, but Chayelle was somehow able to SHOW me.
Once I stopped letting these moods take over, life started looking very different. I came out of my moods far quicker and with no effort at all.
I stopped acting out when I was in a low place because I knew how to take care of myself and not to act in haste and do things I would later regret.
I started having better relationships with my children because I was longer spending all the time I was with them worrying.
But as huge as all these things were for me, the best and also most hidden part of it that had completely changed is the way I relate to myself.
I’m going to be completely honest. I used to despise myself and my actions. I couldn't live with who I was. The thoughts in my head were constantly critical. I was a BAD BAD person.
Like everything else, on the surface you couldn’t see that about me, although I’m sure it came out somehow.
But today, I don’t speak to myself like that anymore. I don’t believe those thoughts anymore. And when they show up, I don’t take them seriously.
I now know how to be kind to myself, not just during the good moments, but in the messy ones too. I feel good inside myself. That’s something I never imagined was possible.
Working with Chayelle didn’t just help me get out of a difficult time. It gave me the ability to face life in a completely new way, one that is filled with joy, flexibility and the knowledge that I can handle anything that life sends my way.
This work has truly enhanced my emunah and however many words I write it will never do it justice!
This is the point where I invite you to be a part of this and embrace your own change.
If you are thoughtful, inquisitive, and you want to get more out of your life down here,
If you want to be able to:
Stop huffing and puffing</spa
Leave aside worry and fear</spa
Enjoy the myriad tasks of motherhood</spa
Start living in the present</spa
Know what to do</spa
Feel confident in your ability to do life well</spa
Feel confident in your ability NOT to ruin your kids lives!</spa
Live a deeper connected life</spa
and finally!
Raise confident, resilient kids</spa
Then this may be for you
This year!
Present Parenting will be reopening
this winter
And the question is:
Will
You
be there?
The best way to decide is this:
Whatever choice you choose…
Follow your inner guidance
One of my favourite pictures on this site! (The kids came home "too" early and joined in the photoshoot...
#innerguidance)
Registration has closed for this year but you can sign up to the waitlist to be notified when we reopen.
Waitlist members will be offered a three figure discount once the program reopens.
